Blogging on Friday the 13

Blogging from East Bruce

Vonda Tedford Keon

Do you know anyone who is so paralyzed by fear that they won’t stick their head out of the door on Friday the 13th? I read that a study was done by the Stress Management and Phobia Institute and they concluded that 17 million people are affected by Friday the 13th. I wonder if these are the same people that throw salt over their left shoulder when they spill it, or refuse to walk under a ladder or step on a crack. Friday the 13th didn’t get any hype until prior to the 19th century. I love to study history so I decided to do a little impromptu research on the subject. The Last Supper, was held on Thursday, with Judas numbered among the 13 guests (Jesus plus the 12 apostles). Then Jesus was crucified on Friday. Then there is the theory of when the death angle went through Egypt and killed all the first born. This Passover day was the Friday the 13th of Nissan which I would agree was a very unlucky day for the non-Hebrew people. The rest of what I found was a bit ridiculous and unfounded so I just decided to do what any sensible person would do on Friday the 13th ; I am taking my cup of coffee out to my gazebo and sitting down to enjoy reading one of the books in my ‘gotta read this’ stack and enjoy the cool breeze and relax.

It has occurred to me that life has gotten so fast and furious, even in our rural area, that we as people don’t really get the chance to visit or ‘sit a spell’ with our friends and neighbors. How many times do you catch up on the news of the community by happenstance because you ran into someone in the grocery aisle? It’s a shame that we don’t see our neighbors and friends like we used to. I blame this on not having a porch. Modern houses don’t have a nice shady place out front to sit and wave at your friends as they go driving by. We don’t grab our iced tea and go chill on the porch at the end of the day. It’s too easy to turn on the TV and plop on the couch than it is to actually talk to someone. Bring back porches I say! Or gazebos at least.

We could just pick up the phone and call folks. The majority of the folks I know have cell phones in their pockets now. Pesky contraptions that they are, they sure do come in handy. There are days that go by that I don’t get to see my mom because I am all over the place working but I can call her. The only problem with a cell phone is I don’t remember phone numbers any longer. If it’s not stored in that memory card I can’t call. That is a shame. So I have to call Mama and use her like directory assistance. Her number is the only one I can remember now. I remember the number that matters the most right?

I am cantor at my church, St. Luke the Evangelist Catholic Church. The cantor is the song leader and there to help the community worship. The songs and Psalms and scripture that are sung at each service are sung prayers for the congregation and for me. Through the songs the congregation becomes involved in the worship instead of just sitting there. It matters not how well a person sings. It matters that the words are intoned with sincerity and are from the heart. Each week I look at the Psalms and Sacred Scripture that I will be cantoring. The cantor sings the verses and the congregation sings the response. It is a beautiful moment during the service to hear the voices sing in unison and to know that we are all singing the same praises and prayers. This Sundays Psalm of response is excerpts from Psalms 69. The response is beautiful, ‘Turn to the Lord in your need and you will live.” Simple words to live by this weekend.

Sundancer

This is Sundancer. It is a solar car built by the students at Houston Vo-Tech. It wins races. The Winston-Dell Solar Car challenge is next week (July 16-July 24). They start in Roundrock Texas and drive to New York State. I'm going to Houston Wednesday July 18 to see the car when it rolls into town for the night. If you want to come along give me a call.

Sundancer has won multiple years. Scott and I saw it a couple of Sundays ago on hiway 45 and that thing was booking down the road. If Calhoun County had a Vo-tech center, our students could be learning to make a solar car or at least learning how to use technology to the fullest degree. They could go on to work in the Toyota plant. There are just times that 'book sense' doesn't cut it. You need vocational skills to get a job. And what about farming? That needs to be in your blood but the average age of a farmer these days is mid to late 50's! I don't know about you but I don't really trust the big mega farms to feed me. Remember the spinach scare? Now I ask you, have you gotten sick from eating anything of Mr. Johnsons peas and tomotoes? I thought not. There is not a darn thing wrong or demeaning in being a farmer. ITs a tough life and long hours and I thank God for a farmer with every bite I take. Just like I hope one day to drive a solar powered car and I know that the technology will have been developed by some kids from Mississippi. Sure wish some kids from Bruce could be in on that parade.

Blogging from East Bruce

Blogging from East Bruce

Vonda Tedford-Keon

If you don’t live in the South, it is hard to imagine what life is really like in rural Mississippi. That is why it is so important when we have visitors from other states (anywhere that is not in Dixie), that we show them true Southern hospitality. This past week the congregation of St. Luke Catholic Church was blessed with a visit from a group of teenagers and their chaparones from Casey, Illinois. They helped us with Vacation Bible School for the children of our parish and then we gave them the full Bruce, Mississippi experience.

They were treated to the ‘cooks’ tour of town and a little history lesson. Then we all went to Saturday dinner at Bubba T. Chickenbone’s Family Smokehouse for some of that fine Bubbateenie Pizza and tall glasses of southern sweet tea. We then walked to the Bollinger Family Theater for the show. It was an enjoyable evening for the group from Illinois. They were in awe at the amount of talent, professionalism and love that was evident on that stage. Thank you, Bollinger family for your shining example of Southern Christian Spirituality. Sunday afternoon they were treated to a swimming break with a Lonesome Dove before heading on up the highway for some Oxford culture. Thank you all for helping us give our visitors a taste of the true Mississippi culture.

There is nothing more relaxing than a slow steady rain. The rain is very welcome after this drought. I hope it’s not too late to help the crops. As I was out driving, I noticed the fields of corn, beans and sweet potatoes were looking green and lush. I also noticed that the grass in my yard seemed to grow a foot overnight! Anytime I look out my kitchen window and see water standing in the dry creek bed between my house and Mom’s, I know its been a good rain.

There is an old dead tree standing in my yard that apparently bothers everyone but me. I can’t count how many people have pulled into my driveway telling me what they would charge to cut it. They can’t tell me how they can get it down without taking out my gazebo or bridge or goldfish pond or without making ruts in Mom’s yard. So I always say no. Anyway, it provides a home for a family of those endangered woodpeckers I keep reading about, and in one of the holes is a family of sugar gliders. The tree is coming down little by little as nature has its way. When the wind gets to blowing just right, a pretty good chunk of that old rotten tree will fall. I have yet to hear a limb fall but little by little it is getting shorter and shorter and I still have my gazebo and bridge and fish pond.

Calling all W girls and guys! There has never been, to my knowledge, an Alumnae chapter of MUW in Calhoun County. Join Vonda Tedford-Keon and Mack Spencer on Saturday, July 21st at the Historic Pittsboro Methodist Church, for an organizational meeting. Our guest speaker will be Susan Puckett, President of the 118 yr old MUWAA. If you graduated from the W or only attended for a semester, you are welcome to come and join the Long Blue Line and share your W stories with us. For more information call Vonda at 983-9118 or Mack at the Monitor Herald.